*Names have been changed.
Alright so there's two girls *Lauren and *Jessie. They've been going out on and off again for about a year. *Lauren is a mother a baby boy who's father is out of the picture because he just wasn't "father material". *Lauren has been hurt in every previous relationship that she decided to become "lesbian". Ever since then it has been nothing but drama. Although *Lauren claims that she is lesbian I can tell the truth. I know this because whenever her and *Jessie break up she always gets with a guy. I feel like this is just an innocent stage for *Lauren. She fears the very thought of getting close to another man because every single one, her baby daddy especially, has put her through so much. I think this is very common among young women together because it happends so much these days that they think maybe it's better. I don't know how it can be better though when you're only doing that for the fear of love. Sure, I know *Lauren and *Jessie have feelings for each other, how could they not? I know for a FACT that *Lauren doesn't care as much for *Jessie though. She's told me herself. I just wish *Lauren could see the great opportunity of good men out there if she just opened her eyes and stopped being afraid.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Wicked love
* means names have been changed.
Alright, so out of all the relationships I've seen, this is hands down the most jacked up I've seen. There's a girl named *Jessica and a guy named *Darin. They have been together for three years. The first year and a half was wonderful. They spent every single day together, and it was no surprise that after only a couple of months they fell for each other. For *Jessica if felt like a dream come true, she thought everything was perfect. She gave everything to *Darin and I mean EVERYTHING. It was never good enough though. One day after a long day of fighting *Darin broke up with *Jessica and broke her heart. He blamed it on her family and said that they should wait a long time to get back together. Only hoping that he would change his mind *Jessica agreed that they should be friends. Broken hearted days later *Jessica so happened to being looking at his Myspace when she already ran across a girl saying she loved *Darin on his comments and photos. Furriated *Jessica grabbed everything that *Darin ever gave her, went to his house, and threw the stuff in his face. She had never be so angry and hurt in her life! She cried and screamed and questioned *Darin asking him why he would do that to her. He smirked as he said, "What do you want me to say". And it ended there.
Three months later, like *Jessica predicted and told *Darin, *Darin broke up with the girl and came back to *Jessica crying and pleading. At first *Jessica thought she really loved him so she gave him another chance, only soon enough to realize that she didn't. It is now a year and a half later again and *Jessica is the one decieting now. Everything that *Darin put her through she has put him through X10 times worse. She doesn't love him at all but she keeps him as her little puppet. I'm not quiet sure if he deserves it but all I can say is WOW. I knew *Jessica to once be the most caring and beautiful person in the world, and now, after everything *Darin has put her through I just see a monster. I guess there really is nothing worse than the wrath of a women.
Alright, so out of all the relationships I've seen, this is hands down the most jacked up I've seen. There's a girl named *Jessica and a guy named *Darin. They have been together for three years. The first year and a half was wonderful. They spent every single day together, and it was no surprise that after only a couple of months they fell for each other. For *Jessica if felt like a dream come true, she thought everything was perfect. She gave everything to *Darin and I mean EVERYTHING. It was never good enough though. One day after a long day of fighting *Darin broke up with *Jessica and broke her heart. He blamed it on her family and said that they should wait a long time to get back together. Only hoping that he would change his mind *Jessica agreed that they should be friends. Broken hearted days later *Jessica so happened to being looking at his Myspace when she already ran across a girl saying she loved *Darin on his comments and photos. Furriated *Jessica grabbed everything that *Darin ever gave her, went to his house, and threw the stuff in his face. She had never be so angry and hurt in her life! She cried and screamed and questioned *Darin asking him why he would do that to her. He smirked as he said, "What do you want me to say". And it ended there.
Three months later, like *Jessica predicted and told *Darin, *Darin broke up with the girl and came back to *Jessica crying and pleading. At first *Jessica thought she really loved him so she gave him another chance, only soon enough to realize that she didn't. It is now a year and a half later again and *Jessica is the one decieting now. Everything that *Darin put her through she has put him through X10 times worse. She doesn't love him at all but she keeps him as her little puppet. I'm not quiet sure if he deserves it but all I can say is WOW. I knew *Jessica to once be the most caring and beautiful person in the world, and now, after everything *Darin has put her through I just see a monster. I guess there really is nothing worse than the wrath of a women.
Conflict and Love?
Nichole and Nathan. In so many ways they are like the previous couple I talked about Stacey and Irving, but they are different too. They basically have the same story (right down to the SAME cousin) but the only difference is they actually DID fall in love. Nathan stayed with Nikki through her pregnancy. In fact, they've liked with each other since the age of fifth teen. This couple is a great example of couples who start off as having "puppy love" to having it grow into so much more. They've had MANY struggles and have gone through any terrible situation from cheating to abuse, but they've managed to work through it all. Although I believe that sometimes this couple stays together because Nichole believes she will have no way to support her children without Nathan when I see the way they are around each other, and see that little sparkle between their eyes and smile one their faces I can see its love. Funny how Nathan, who used to be one of the biggest jerks to Nichole, changed after the birth of their children. This couple is most likely the most conflicting relationship I've ever seen, but most defiantly the realest I've seen with natural love.
L.O.V.E
The only people who I've only known to be in love truely are Joe and Tammy. They've been together for fifthteen year, but married for thirteen. This couple really shows what love is about. They care more about their partner than they do themselves and they would waste their last dime, give all the clothes off their backs and use up their lasts breaths for each other. They are totally opposites. Joe being the happy, greetful man who talks to everyone since he was a child to now, and Tammy being the strong, VERY blunt person since she was younger, you would never think that these two would be with each other. After both going through marriage before though, and meeting each other at older ages, these two knew what they wanted. They are two perfect examples of people being ready for a serious relationship and knowing the TRUE meaning of love.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Boy meets Girl
Let's start off by telling Stacey and Irving's story in one of those fast and simple ways.
Really outgoing girl meets really shy boy. Girl thinks boy is cute and likes him, while boy thinks girl is embarrassing, but embarrassing funny, so he likes her too. Girl and boy get together and are for a long time.Girl loves boy, Boy loves girl. Girl and boy are happy. After many more months boy and girl have many problems though and break up. Boy gets with girl's cousin. Girl gets with other boy, but finds out she's pregnant. Girl goes through pregnancy alone. Boy eventually breaks up with cousin, but, still doesn't get back with girl. Girl loves boy. Boy is confused and not ready. Girl has baby girl and only loves baby girl afterwards. Boy loves both girls then, and is no longer confused. Girl wants nothing to do with boy but still gets back with him for baby girls sake.
Now, that was just to give you a quick background because explaining the whole story would take all day. Stacey and Irving have had more than a few ups and downs, but today I look at them and see something very common these days. They now live together and have two kids, one boy, and one girl. They are by far the oddest couple I know. One minute they're messing around and having a good time, then next, they're at each others throat. I guess I suppose why they are like that though. They never really had the chance to fall in love for all the right reasons. They had a baby, and therefore they believed that they had to be in love for the sake of the baby. I can't really tell you if what they really have is love, but it IS something. I guess its the emotional bond that they show between their children, or maybe secretly under all of Stacey's resentment (for everything Irving did to her) and all of Irving's trapped feelings (feeling he needed to be with the mother of his children) there really is love. This couple makes me wonder if love really can come out of nothing? Or if it can come back after A LOT of hard blows. I guess no one will really know how they really feel except for them I suppose.
Really outgoing girl meets really shy boy. Girl thinks boy is cute and likes him, while boy thinks girl is embarrassing, but embarrassing funny, so he likes her too. Girl and boy get together and are for a long time.Girl loves boy, Boy loves girl. Girl and boy are happy. After many more months boy and girl have many problems though and break up. Boy gets with girl's cousin. Girl gets with other boy, but finds out she's pregnant. Girl goes through pregnancy alone. Boy eventually breaks up with cousin, but, still doesn't get back with girl. Girl loves boy. Boy is confused and not ready. Girl has baby girl and only loves baby girl afterwards. Boy loves both girls then, and is no longer confused. Girl wants nothing to do with boy but still gets back with him for baby girls sake.
Now, that was just to give you a quick background because explaining the whole story would take all day. Stacey and Irving have had more than a few ups and downs, but today I look at them and see something very common these days. They now live together and have two kids, one boy, and one girl. They are by far the oddest couple I know. One minute they're messing around and having a good time, then next, they're at each others throat. I guess I suppose why they are like that though. They never really had the chance to fall in love for all the right reasons. They had a baby, and therefore they believed that they had to be in love for the sake of the baby. I can't really tell you if what they really have is love, but it IS something. I guess its the emotional bond that they show between their children, or maybe secretly under all of Stacey's resentment (for everything Irving did to her) and all of Irving's trapped feelings (feeling he needed to be with the mother of his children) there really is love. This couple makes me wonder if love really can come out of nothing? Or if it can come back after A LOT of hard blows. I guess no one will really know how they really feel except for them I suppose.
"Love" for the blind.
Note: The * is there to show that names have been changed.
Alright, so I know this girl Kayla* who is going out with a guy named Steven*. This relationship started early on, back in middle school when they were together, but they broke it off for reasons unknown to me. Now, they attend high school and "rekindled" I guess you would say their relationship. They have been together for three months and already they're just like all the other couples in high school. They're "in love". Psh. These two wouldn't know what love was if it smacked them dead in the face.
The girl-Kayla*- I know for a fact isn't in love with him although she claims to be. She is just like any other teenage girl who has been through numerous relationships and numerous heartbreaks. She just wants attention. She's always just wanted attention, and I'm not just saying that from studying here, I know that because I've very close to her and know her more than she understands herself. She just wants someone to be in love with, but really she's oblivious to what love is really about. Kayla* has always given EVERYTHING to every guy she dates. She does anything to make them happy even if it comes to her expense. She just does it to keep them around , and she puts her own self-dignity aside to do it. I don't think any young women should have to do that just so that their BOYFRIEND can be happy.
The guy-Steven*- is such a jerk to her in so many ways too, but she's just so blind that she just can't see it. He literally jerks her away from friends, he goes M.I.A. for hours and comes up with unpractical excuses for it, and he flirts with other girls all the time, even right in front of her! Somehow though he manages to charm her with his words and make sure she stays around. I don't know how she puts up with him.
This relationship is bogus. I've told Kayla* on numerous accounts that it is to. She's still in denial. I would hope that maybe one day she would realize that it would be better to be alone, because after everything she's been through she is NOT ready for a relationship. I just wish she could understand that and quit being so dependent on a guy to make her happy, because then, it's not love at all, it's just being scared of being alone. And in my opinion, how are you going to take care of the one you "love" when you can't even take care of yourself?
Alright, so I know this girl Kayla* who is going out with a guy named Steven*. This relationship started early on, back in middle school when they were together, but they broke it off for reasons unknown to me. Now, they attend high school and "rekindled" I guess you would say their relationship. They have been together for three months and already they're just like all the other couples in high school. They're "in love". Psh. These two wouldn't know what love was if it smacked them dead in the face.
The girl-Kayla*- I know for a fact isn't in love with him although she claims to be. She is just like any other teenage girl who has been through numerous relationships and numerous heartbreaks. She just wants attention. She's always just wanted attention, and I'm not just saying that from studying here, I know that because I've very close to her and know her more than she understands herself. She just wants someone to be in love with, but really she's oblivious to what love is really about. Kayla* has always given EVERYTHING to every guy she dates. She does anything to make them happy even if it comes to her expense. She just does it to keep them around , and she puts her own self-dignity aside to do it. I don't think any young women should have to do that just so that their BOYFRIEND can be happy.
The guy-Steven*- is such a jerk to her in so many ways too, but she's just so blind that she just can't see it. He literally jerks her away from friends, he goes M.I.A. for hours and comes up with unpractical excuses for it, and he flirts with other girls all the time, even right in front of her! Somehow though he manages to charm her with his words and make sure she stays around. I don't know how she puts up with him.
This relationship is bogus. I've told Kayla* on numerous accounts that it is to. She's still in denial. I would hope that maybe one day she would realize that it would be better to be alone, because after everything she's been through she is NOT ready for a relationship. I just wish she could understand that and quit being so dependent on a guy to make her happy, because then, it's not love at all, it's just being scared of being alone. And in my opinion, how are you going to take care of the one you "love" when you can't even take care of yourself?
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