Introductions Anyone?

Attration. That's where it all begins. Whether it was caused by your friend about how great some guy was, the way this random guy seemed to handle himself as he entered the room, or just the unexplainable. Something about him just seemed...right? Either way it happens I would assume that it starts off something like this.

First, you find a way to conversant with him whether it be one of the possible three. One, you have a friend go up and ask about you because you're kind of shy to do it yourself. Two, you don't tell your friends about him, so you just keep eyeing him from across the room hoping that he'll read your signs and make a move himself. Or three, you just go up and talk to him yourself. You know what they say, men love confidence.

Now, after your conversations gets to going you find yourself interested. He makes you laugh, smile, and even open up a little to him. Soon enough it's time for you to go and you're stuck there wondering where did the time go? He flashes you a cute smile, secretly not wanting you to go, so he asks for your number. Your heart flutters, but you keep your cool. You flash him a smile back and with a quick touch of your fingers your number is dialed into his phone.

Soon enough you find yourself talking to him a lot throughout your day. Either by talking or texting or through e-mail. You try to talk about as much things as possible like what's your latest excitement in life when really he had no idea, that he is. You really start wanting to get into his feelings, thoughts and ideas, and he lets you. Once that happens you find yourself smiling whenever that appealing picture he sent you pops up on your cellphone screen. Almost immediately you that "spark" that you had when you first met feels like its turned into a blaze and you almost have to pull yourself back into reality. This is way more than a friendship.

In the next few weeks you start spending more time with him. You go out, you have fun, you're happy. You are drawn to him like a moth to a light and you almost feel comfortable being vulnerable around him, but you try not to be. You think to yourself "lets go slow" because in your mind the tendency to verbalize your feelings would most likely just push him away. So you sit back, try to play it cool and keep him interested, OR you verbalize your feelings anyways. And in time, a relationship begins.

I'm here to find out why. I am surrounded by relationships daily that have all started in numerous ways. I'm here to tell their stories. I want to find out what exactly attratced them and how they responded towards one another. Every relationships is different. I'm just simple here to point out why.